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The S**T just hit the fan!

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Thu, 04/10/2014 - 12:35pm

BM's husband will be starting a new job - at my employer in my area. He potentially will have access to my personnel records! FML! Any suggestions?

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Thu, 04/10/2014 - 1:10pm

No to both. But he potentially could have access to my pay documents.

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Thu, 04/10/2014 - 1:13pm

Not to be too revealing but I work in HR for my employer. And he would be in the same area but a different function. He potentially could have access to my pay documents. Labor Relations advised me to have a chat with the hiring official, who I know and have a good work relationship, and explain the situation. I purposely keep my life super-private from BM because she is soooo out in left field and will used the dumbest stuff against me or DH. Like I bought a used car. That pissed her off and she screamed at both of us for more child support. My financial situation is completely separate from DH because of stuff like this. His name isn't on the car, he didn't even go with me when I bought it, but she saw it as money shared jointly and wanted her "piece of the pie." Easier to scream than to get a freaking job. LOL

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Submitted by Hanny on Thu, 04/10/2014 - 5:24pm

I totally see where you are coming from. We don't want BM to have any access to either of our personal stuff. I hope your company can give you some advice on this. I'd be interested in knowing if they can do anything about this.

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Submitted by simifan on Thu, 04/10/2014 - 5:47pm

I have a staff person under me who's daughter works in HR. She is not allowed to see or touch records of her mom. I have to take everything to the HR manager (& they have a good relationship). Talk to HR.