Ok SO was single for 5 years. He had a few flings here and there but I'm his first serious relationship since bm and him broke up. The nightmares and horrifying things this bm have said are out of control.

SO and I were pressured for me to meet SC and BM was there which in a pervious post was explained as the meeting was for her. Also in the post I was warned that bm would claim that SC hates me which has now happened even though she like me 2 weeks ago. Bm has tried to break SO and I up by makingcomments to him. Now though it is like full on crazy. I'm actually going to copy the actual text messages :

SO works 6 days a week this time of year so he organizes his only day off to spend with SC. There is no CO at the moment. So here we go

"Well SC not going over to or anywhere with (my name) but whenever you like I guess as long as you call first thats SC choice btw"

Thats last night so here we go into today when asked in the morning to get SC for today

"Oh SC out at the moment idk when sc will be back"

BM didn't even contact until 4 and then said SO had an hour to see SC. We went shopping bc we had waited and noting so we weren't close sooo yeah then this ensued:

"Idk how I feel about Xmas so when you aren't busy we will have to discuss it" back story: SO gave BM a money order for 500 to spend on Xmas in addition to child support and discuss it means SO is to go to her house and discuss it in person

"If you care to try and figure this (not sure if visitation or Xmas she's talking about?) Out you know where I live. I'm not texting and dealing with you. Things aren't going to go the way you want no matter what you do! SC is old enough (10) to choose if SC wants to stay with you. SC says never as long as someone else is there. So if you choose to alienate her go ahead I'm not telling her to give it a chance when I dont agree"

"Now maybe over the next few days you come over and have a chat and take time out of your precious schedule"

"SC going to be home for the next hour and then leaving again if you want to pop in and say hi"
On a day he planned w bm for him to see SC???!!!!

"You gotta take (my 10 year old nephew) too he's here"

"I need to discuss a few things with you in person not text or phone'

"She has plans today thats why you haven't seen SC. You can do anything as long as it does not involve (my name)

" we only talk in person"

He's just basically saying I'll be back in 45 min can I see SC I'd like to at least go do something. The big issue with me is that we live together. Its been a shit show since then.

This is BM again:
"Well we need to talk in person! There are issues you need to face! SC is not willing to see you where you live if (my name) is there!! She is jealous of her and decided she's weird. SC words not mine!!! So you need to figure out how all this is going to work! Its pointless to try to fight me on this bc it is what it is. Working with me would be best. I'm not impressed with you giving me a money order. Its other people controlling what you do. I already have SC so I win no matter what!"

Okay I copied this bc I am in awe of the nerve. I have dated 2 men with children before I have NEVER seen anything like this!!!

She has screamed I'm a whore over the phone. Told SO to not have anything to do with her family then telling him he has to take her nephew today. Like holy shit. Please tell me its not just me.

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