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“Can my mom come to the baby shower”?

porcelian-doll's picture

My baby shower is tomorrow and I'm stressing out over it. SD14 asked me if BM could come. “Can my mom come to the baby shower? No. “Why not"? I don't need to explain myself to you I said no. BM called and said SD invited her to my baby shower but she won’t come if I don't want her there. I was nice about it and let her know it’s for friends and family members only and SD has no place inviting anyone. BM took it in stride no big deal. SD14 later post on Facebook “Some people need to learn to bury the hatchet you can't go through life with a stick up your butt". DH replied to her post “Some people need to learn respect for others. You can't go around judging people with four fingers pointing back at yourself". She deleted the post and before she could come whining to DH he sent her to bed early.

I just want tomorrow to be a good day. I feel bloated, irritable and nauseous today and the little human inside me won't let me forget that she is there. Maybe she will be into yoga with all the stretching she is doing. My mom is coming down tonight to help my grandmother set up and be there for me tomorrow. They want me to be surprised with the set up. I just hope I feel good tomorrow.

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omgsaveme's picture

EW who wants their DHs ex at their baby shower and what was SD thinking? You are supposed to have a good time, so just enjoy your time to celebrate your baby.

Tuff Noogies's picture

ur SD's got quite the balls, eh? sheesh. i like how your DH shut her down Wink

hope you're feeling better, and enjoy yourself tomorrow!!!

Anne Boleyn's picture

WTF?

porcelian-doll's picture

unfortunately she is. I didn't want to look like the evil SM for not inviting her when my other cousins her age will be there.

porcelian-doll's picture

yeah that's them but since then BM has been trying to make "peace" with me. Trust me I would rather wipe my butt with a catus than have SD there. When I brought it up to DH he lost it that I would thing of excluding her and I didn't want her to have even more anger towards me.

porcelian-doll's picture

Thanks for the well wishes just hoping I wake up tommorow feeling better and up to it.

queenofthedamned's picture

Oh yes - you definitely need a designated SD wrangler. Preferably with one of those zombie poles they use to control the beasts on The Walking Dead.