SD15 wants to make a party for the end of the summer,and she wants it in the house. SD9 this it's cool she'll be able to be at the party until 10pm and SD18 thinks it's amazing and wonderful and whatnot that her "lil sis" has the planning ability to organize such a big party, and that she has enough friends to make it "go through the roof" or something like that, can't get the right term.
my husband thinks it's a wonderful "cute" idea and that it should be done. he says that it's ok that she hosts a party at her house once because she was at parties in clubs and other people's houses this whole summer and so has SD18 so she'd get to invite her friends. so all that means that there would be god knows how many drunk, crazy, uncontrollable, destructive, sassy teenagers in this house , and i have no idea what to do.
from one side, i think it may be a good idea to take my baby and go somewhere. even though i'd have to make a huge inconvenience for someone, i may do it.
but then again, id feel terribly uncomfortable knowing that there's something huge and possibly terrible going on there and i'm just far away.
i'm not happy that my husband is allowing it.
and i know what these kids are like, every single one of them is a mess just like SD15 is. And not to mention SD18's friends that'll come later in the night.

though i have good news, SDs have been making less noise during the night. i don't think that it's due to me waking them up,but rather to the fact they just walk in the house, shower,and jump in their beds. but anyways its going good.

i still am not having sex my husband,he has not said a word,hes acting "normal" and dealing with SDs like he always did - by NOT dealing with them at all.

well... oh well.
at least they're quiet at night.
and they're thinking of going to sleep at midnight at school nights. yeah right after 3 months of going to sleep at 6 am. i'd love to see that.