Who does this to their kids? Oh yeah...BM that's who!
I got a call from SD20 today asking me to have lunch with her. I was surprised because although we've seen each other at a few family functions, there's been some tension ever since the dog incident.
Anyway, we go to lunch and SD20 breaks into tears and says she can't come to the wedding because it will hurt her mom too much. She was supposed to be in the wedding, but now she feels like she can't even attend.
Apparently BM specifically asked her to stay home with her to console her while we get married. BM is upset because she felt like eventually she and FDH would get back together. Even though she cheated on him and asked for a divorce. Somehow they were destined to be together and I am ruining it all. I have heard this crap before, it goes in cycles. Sometimes she can't stand him, other times they are star crossed soul mates. :sick:
But I am really surprised she would stick her kid in the middle like that. This is a new low, even for BM!
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SD says she can't hurt her
SD says she can't hurt her mom like that and she hopes we will understand/forgive her if she doesn't come. I am hoping that FDH can talk some sense into SD or BM or both but we'll see.
BM started to get this idea that she needed to get back with FDH when she broke up with her affair partner and started going to church. Apparently the Bible frowns on divorce, who knew?!
Ever since then BM has been on and off the crazy train. Sometimes BM realizes how stupid it all is and really tries to get along, other times she goes nuts.