This is actually a female friend and not nasty skanky ex (I think) boyfriend, but still...

Put on your big girl panties SD20 and drive down to see your father, grandparents, and little half-sisters without bringing along a friend for moral support. So how much time do you think SD20 will actually spend with "family" given none of us have ever met this friend and she probably does NOT want to spend a weekend staring at DH, DH's family and our kids?

And this is AFTER DH texted SD20 and told her she was to come ALONE. Sheesh.