Do you ever feel for BMs
I have to admit I do at times, because:
A) many have mental illnesses. Either they're diagnosed or undiagnosed. That's got to be hard.
It's got to be hard watching another woman do motherly things for your kids, especially if the bm isn't the one who wanted the breakup/divorce.
C) It's got to be hard if sm truly was the other woman and now is helping to raise the kids.
D) It's got to be hard if he didn't marry you and had kids with you, but he did marry sm. Regardless of whether he had kids with her or not.
That is not to excuse their pasing, but I can see how it'd be hard sometimes.
- Anon2009's blog
- Log in or register to post comments
Comments
I used to feel for BM. Now I
I used to feel for BM.
Now I only would like to feel.the satisfactory THUMP of my SUV driving over her...
LOVE IT! Never felt for BM
LOVE IT! Never felt for BM bc she's a royal B*T*CH! But would totally love the SUV thing- I prefer to say a Mack truck hit her or a bus- that way I'm still innocent and she'd be DOA and out of our lives though lol!
Don't feel sorry for
Don't feel sorry for her...Everything she has done is of her own making. Version 2.0 is always better.
I feel no pity for BM because
I feel no pity for BM because she is a lowlife. She is a truly nasty bitch who does deserve any dissatisfaction she gets. Honestly, she is a nasty piece of work. I tried, I failed. I could never win. Nasty Nasty Nasty piece of work. Do I feel sorry for her lowlife obsessive behavoiour - NO!!!!! I feel sad for her attention seeking behaviour. But at the same time, I feel mad, because she obviously still believes SO should be catering to it, or why would she persist??? - after 4 years!!!!
Our BM: 1. Is mentally ill,
Our BM:
1. Is mentally ill, no diagnosis needed
2. She cheated on DH, and on every man before and after DH
3. She chooses to not do motherly things for her children that would show support for her child
4. Because of #3, BM makes me looks good
I feel no sympathy for BM, she chose her path
^^ This is our situation
It's sad the way she lives her life, thinking she's got it made because she doesn't. Every "solution" she thinks she has is only the start of a bigger problem for her later on in life - ie receiving a huge chunk of money from the gov't TWICE, but not putting it to good use (I don't think Lulu Lemon clothing counts as a necessity). TBH, I'm surprised the skids aren't living with US, the way she goes on. CAS has repeatedly threatened to take the kids from her, but she's good at manipulating and conniving.
Sometimes I do, like a little
Sometimes I do, like a little Puppy who needs attention.
Then she pisses on my rug again, and I'm hard pressed to not beat her ass.
}:)
No, I never feel sorry for
No, I never feel sorry for her. Perhaps if she was a human being and an adult about things I could muster some emotion for her but I can't. Her repeated attempts to undermine not only dh's relationship with his son, but my relationship with dh, have left me cold. Clearly, I underestimated this woman's particular brand of lunacy. . .
NOT.AT.ALL. I FEEL like
NOT.AT.ALL.
I FEEL like beating the stupid out of her. But that's about all I FEEL.
I do feel bad for BM, she was
I do feel bad for BM, she was a victim of mental cruelty and a shitty childhood and although her kids had things she didnt have, like a mother who worked, and didnt get completely drunk every night like her own father, a decent roof over their head, and the basics taken care of, the mental and physical abuse she has bestowed on her children is ever lasting.