Do not blame you for taking baby steps with your SIL at all. I don't know that I would have been as big of a person, given what she's done to you. BM in our situation and I haven't met yet. She says she wants to meet me but then will hide out in the parking lot at sd games until I leave ( go to work). I just don't like the idea of her/ her friends looking through my Fb. Maybe after we meet, but the again after some of the stories on here...