Month ago SO promised he would find a councellor for us after he showed some anger issues and was screaming at me a few times , mostly about his kid.It was very important to me that he would do that step since a) I was trying since years to "do something" and to deal with the situation by educating myself, reading and talking and b) he was clearly crossing the lines screaming in my face like that. I even reminded him twice , but he simply never did anything.
I grew so frustrated about his "empty words"since then -this is in combination with having to deal with SD8, who is princessed, and SO who is impossible to talk to since he is straight away offended!!
I started being a bit anxious and really think now about not continuing with the rs in a way.So I decided to see a councellor JUST for myself and hope to find some clarity.
Because SO and I don't really talk well I never mentioned it to him until today (which is my first session).I told him also that I did do that because he never went ahead with his promise and therefore now look for help for myself and by myself.
He looked like a surprised fish (mouth open!) , and then walked out - obviously offended again!!!!