SO emailed BM's lawyer after the mediator emailed him that "they" had come to an agreement (they had not) and the mediator had wrote up what they had agreed (and he wrote up times for holiday's wrong which was the only thing they did agree to) So SO told the lawyer they hadn't agreed, then sent her copies of BM's rants that she didn't agree. Today he gets a letter that BM's lawyer has the mediators agreement for him ready to sign so they can move forward in their new separate lives. Um hi both party's just told you they don't agree so wtf. SO isn't signing it they don't go back to court till June, BM is again threatening to withhold the kids if he doesn't sign something that even she said she doesn't agree with. I've tried to get SO to play to pretend it all benefits BM game (she's dumb as a box of rocks) and will make what he wants a little less wordy but all the same meaning and convince her that if she signs it she gets what she wants them divorced, pretend moty eo week and she doesn't pay him cs since he's unemployed again he will be her bitch boy and take the kids to all dr. apts and dentist apts and vision so she doesn't have to and tada he wins. State will make her pay cs anyway, he wants to do all appts because she doesn't take them ever, they've never seen a dentist ever they have no pediatrician and his dd has needed glasses all year (SO has no ins). Yet BM's lawyer expects him to sign he may not have a lawyer but he's not dumb.