SO, DH went with SD and BM to SD's councilors appointment this morning (he missed the last one) and low and behold... SD has made a complete turn around/recovery. This is following a couple of pretty pleasant weeks with SD. She seems to be heading back to the half way polite/delightful little girl she was 6 months-1 year ago. She was diagnosed with slight depression/attachment disorder just a month ago and BAM she is cured! Either this councelor is a wack job or it was all an attention seeking thing with SD. All I know is that I don't really care. As long as she is more pleasant to be around, I don't give a shit what the councelor says or does. She did say she wanted SD to come back in a month just to make sure she was still felling ok and she reminded BM that she needed to get her "shit" straightened around and actually parent SD. The same thing that I have been saying ALL along, but hey, who am I right?? Councelor basically patted DH on the back for not being a gypsie and moving 100 different times in a year and for staying married longer then a year and for establishing routines with SD. The same as she has every other appointment, and yet, BM STILL says DH is to blame for every little ache and pain and sad day that SD has. Go suck it BM. SD is fine and you are all full of shit and I am tired of it!