So my H is in apparently serious violation of the visitation agreement btw. him and the socio regarding SD8. Well b/c of socio's abuse of SD my H wasn't allowing socio to get her, well socio didn't have problems with that. Until a month ago when she filed papers that my H was in violation. So the consequences of this is jail time. Well we have full custody of SD and the socio doesn't want custody, great mom huh?

Well a few weeks ago we caught socio in a violation b/c she refused to return SD after her weekend was over. Her lawyer was pissed anyway, they won't drop it apparently unless H gives her joint custody...can you imagine!! So my H is going to apparently work up the nerve to talk to socio about dropping it considering that he will file a petition against her violation, doesn't it just make sense to drop it then go to court to revise the visitation, which my H want's to reduce her rights.

I know this socio and I don't think she'll drop it though we have a violation on her. It doesn't make any sense but I feel like we're constantly kissing her *ss. Also, I feel like we're kissing my SD's *ss too so that she'll want to stay with us. I put a stop to that right now b/c she is giving me serious attitude. I can choose to leave and I really want to make that clear to her, I will not put up with a little 8 y/o *itch!! Thank you very much...