WHAT!? I am so sorry for you Jennifer. I haven't been through this so I can't relate but I can definately be here to listen and offer a safe place to talk. What happened? How long were they divorced when this happened?

Get out = once a cheater always a cheater. Check out this website it may help you out - www.survivinginfidelity.com My SO got alot of help from this site after he caught his ex cheating.

i'm so sorry you had to go through this! Me personally, i wouldn't stay with him, wouldn't be able to. but my sister has a sister in law that this happened to and they managed to make it work somehow. It's all up to you guys, sorry i wasn't more help and i wish you healing