What planet is she from?
SD is still staying at her friend's house, it's been over a month now. I'm not complaining! Last night my daughter had her friend spend the night. It was almost 10:00 so I put a movie on for them and was in my room reading. My daughter and her friend came racing into my room, they said someone is banging on the door. I got a bit nervous because I definitely wasn't expecting anyone and DH was at work. Next thing you know someone is trying to open my daughter's bedroom window. Now we were all really freaked out. I looked outside but couldn't tell who it was. I heard a car in my driveway blasting music...I was ready to call the cops. Then I hear SD yelling outside. Ughhhhhhh what an idiot! I ripped the door open and my expression said it all. She said she needed to "re-up on clothes". At 10pm??!!! I was beyond pissed. She has zero consideration or respect for me or my household. I have no clue who was in my driveway blasting music but I told her it's too late at night for all that. She grabbed some clothes and left. I called DH and flipped out. All he said was, "what kind of car was it?" I told him it was dark, how the hell would I know??? The issue at hand is she needs to take ALL of her clothes out of my house. This is BS!!!!! So I'm sure when he gets home we will be having a heated discussion about SD because I can't take it. I want a resolution now.
Same. Boxed it all up. Done
Same. Boxed it all up. Done and done.
Give it all away and tell
Give it all away and tell her. These teens are brats.
She's 13.
She's 13.
WTF?? 13?? and she's still
WTF?? 13?? and she's still running around at 10pm at night? Has DH completely and utterly lost the plot? Where is BM?
Damn - I would've ripped DH a new one if that happened to us!
Seriously - either throw ALL her shit out and disengage - or get DH to man the fuck up and parent this kid!
Yup! There are NO rules at
Yup! There are NO rules at her friend's house and very little supervision. I cannot believe that DH thinks this is a solution. What he needs to do is send her back to her mother's house where she was under strict watch. Her mom has no clue that she is not living with us right now. She has not been to visit her mom in almost 2 months. She purposely provoked her mother when she would go to visit, and then she would call DH crying saying her mom was being mean to her and he would pick her up. When she would get home, she would run to her friend's house...hello that is the whole reason she didn't want to be at her mom's house! That kid is the master of manipulation, makes me sick!!! So yes, I do want to pack all her shit and drop it off at her friend's house.
Oh and to top it off
Oh and to top it off apparently while she was getting more clothes she stole some of our xbox games. DH just realized it tonight. Of course he will do absolutely nothing as usual. I really feel like packing what's left of her stuff. She has no respect for anyone.
She's lucky that she doesn't
She's lucky that she doesn't live here! Sneaking around at all hours when she isn't even supposed to be at the house, and DH is at work? Great way to get your head beat in..."Sorry officer, I thought it was an intruder!"
Lol seriously, she irks me
Lol seriously, she irks me beyond belief. I never thought I could feel this way about a child, but I honestly cannot stand her. If DH brings her name up, I instantly get irritated. He was telling me the other night that he took her to get her eyebrows waxed and our daughter was with them. He said our daughter barely said 2 words to her and I guess SD told DH that she has an attitude with her now. Hello?? Our daughter is a respectful child and she can see right through her sister. Not to mention the fact that she hears all kinds of things about her from kids at school.
Why is DH taking her to get
Why is DH taking her to get her eyebrows waxed? Girl needs to learn to use a set of tweezers like the rest of us! Sorry...SD14 has to pull out the tweezers, as I'm not paying $20 every two weeks for eyebrows. If the tweezers are good enough for me, they are good enough for her!
And I'm the same way...anytime DH starts talking about SD14, I can feel my skin crawl! I'm just waiting for SD14 to throw a fit because BS19 is getting a yearbook and she isn't. Sorry, hon...they are $50! He is a senior and has not gotten a yearbook any other year. When SD14 is a senior, she can finally get one, if she ever gets that far! Not to mention, if BS19 signs with the college for football this week (as signing day is a week for today), the deposit to hold his spot will be due! That is way more important that SD14 having a yearbook! But she will whine about it..."He got...." Well, how many things has SD14 gotten that BS19 didn't get or didn't get the equivalent of? Didn't see BS19 get $200 worth of fun stuff when she got all that makeup she didn't NEED!
And they wonder why their siblings act like they don't like them!
It makes me sick that he
It makes me sick that he rewards her for being such an asshole! He came in tonight and said he was late because he picked SD and her friend up and got them take out. I rolled my eyes and thanked him for the update. He knows I am beyond done with her. I just wish he would wake up and realize he's not doing her any favors. Whatever, I have washed my hands of that situation. As long as she isn't in my house, I'm not going to stress myself out over her. Good riddance! I just wish it was done the right way, meaning she goes back to mommy's house where there are rules and consequences.
Her friend's parents will get
Her friend's parents will get tired of it soon enough.
And that is when crap will
And that is when crap will hit the fan! Because I have said it a hundred times that SD is no longer welcome to stay here, but I think DH feels if push comes to shove I will let her come back. NOPE! So he better be ready to call her mom and tell her she's coming back, or he can get his own place with his evil spawn.
You should see her new facebook profile picture, it's her laying on the ground with her shirtless boyfriend laying right on top of her and they are both seductively looking into the camera!!!! OMG she is 13 freakin years old!! I was going to show her father, but I said nope, let her mother see that picture and take matters into her own hands.
If I were you, I'd call BM
If I were you, I'd call BM and have a mother to mother talk with her about whats going on, and what you dont agree with for the sake of your sd wellbeing and your sanity! DH might not like it, but I bet BM will appreciate it! If DH is doing nothing about it BM needs to know! She's 13 running the streets! I hope your DH is ready to be a grandpa!