I am engaged to a man I love dearly. Between us both we have four children 23, 19, 19 and 18. I moved in with him that he and his children have lived in for 18 years. I guess now even though they only live here during the summer, they are complaining about how I decorated “their” house, complaining about it to their father and on face book. I need help dealing with some issues.
First I just found out that HIS children are telling me I cannot marry their father for 5 years because of their colleges (grant money they want with his income), if we get married than they lose some benefits. I just cannot believe how two children can predict my future with my future hubby
His 19 daughter calls him daily wanting things. I need this, I need that, no matter what our money situation is, and he gives her everything. If he does not do it right away, she calls calls and calls until he says I will right now. I don’t mean cheap things either, 180.00 coat, 190.00 boots, 80.00 make up kit, things like this (he just bought her all these things less than a year ago and she wants new again). Everything is all about her. We fight all the time because of her and how he gives her everything that she needs to get a job stop using him as a piggy bank (my honey works two jobs because of this situation). As long as you do what she wants, she is nice, other than that look out.
My two children have tried to get along with them but they just look at us like we are white trash. Just because we do things different doesn’t mean we are not the same.