tattoos??
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I have a very rocky relationship with my SS and honestly don't want to tattoo of his name on me, the idea makes me cringe (as bad as that makes me sound) but I would love to get my bio daughters name on me at some point in the future. I guess I just want to know if you would get the tattoo of your baby or if you wouldn't because of the stepchild and why?
I feel as though I would be
I feel as though I would be favouring my children.... I favour my BD more as it is. That's why but I know I never could.. No idea how I could explain it though
That's easy. It's your body
That's easy. It's your body and you put what you want in it. You are not obliged to have your SS name on your body.
Your body. Put whatever you
Your body. Put whatever you want on it. This should be a non issue. Anyone telling you otherwise should be told to FO.
IMHO of course.
I don't think I would ever be
I don't think I would ever be able to make a choice about my child based on my step. Whether it was a piece of jewelry, a tattoo or whatever.
Honestly, I think it would be a terrible idea to tattoo a skids name on yourself. While everyone wants to believe our relationships will last forever, the fact is that if you break up with the kid's parent, you're unlikely to see them again, even if it is your child's sibling. add a rocky relationship to that.... No way. And as a bio mom, I would find it kind of creepy for someone to want a tattoo dealing with my kid unless it was her dad, but that's just me.
This is pretty much the exact
This is pretty much the exact conversation I had with my husband about it. I knew I wasn't crazy
It would never, ever occur to
It would never, ever occur to me to get my step daughter's name tattooed on me and it would certainly not stop me from getting my bio's.
Don't give it another thought.
Not in a million year. I
Not in a million year.
I have tattooed my kid's name but not in a million i'm going to even consider to put those crazy skids name on my body...ruin this perfect body with those name? Heck no
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I have stars tattooed on my
I have stars tattooed on my forearm for all my BIO kids & grandkids. I am almost 100% percent there will come a point when DH asks me when I am going to add SD star to my arm. Which I would never do in a million years. But DH is absolutely clueless about real SLIFE. He thinks there should be NO difference betweens steps & bios. Sooo dumb. I hate looking at SD's name on HIS arm theres no way in heck Im putting anything on MINE for her!