Just found out the bm has no place to live and didn't inform the dad who is the custodial parent. For months every other weekend the sd has been allowed to sleep at the boyfriends house. We found a phone that had pics at 4 am she was taking of her bf sleeping. And messages of the bm also telling the daughter how to skip school, and stay up past curfew to facetime with the biomom. The biomom has helped to hide so much. And letting her sleep at a bf house?!? Do we have to send her back. Fortunately we had been doing a trial period to see if they could behave so as of now she doesn't go till spring. Its in the paperwork bm has to have a physical address to give us. So do we still have to comply? Poor sd had been couch surfing over 4 places we know of due to lack of consistency over there.