His Ex Wife is about to run me out!!!!!!!!!!

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Hello Everybody I really need some advice here. I also posted another post in Blended Family Issues under Daddy's spoiled brat. I have to get this off my chest a little and vent.

Ive been with him for 5 yrs and this bitch will not leave our lives the F alone!!!!! They have been divorced for 8 years!!! It started when we first got together she would call him all the time to confide in him, while she was already with somebody for 2 yrs at this point. We had to take their little princess all the time so she can go out. He would always feel sorry for the ex wife and they would chat daily. She would pick him up when the car wasnt working and take him wherever. When him and I would fight he would call her to vent to her about me. When I would answer my bf's phone she would be really rude to me like who the hell are u to answer his phone. She has her daughter come over with a major attitude with me bc her mom talks so much shit. His ex wife suddenly became friends with my bf's newer friends on Facebook when Ive never even met them. My bf's Mother and her have suddenly became so close. Last year I found out my bf and his ex wife were getting pain pills together. Something he knows i'd leave him over. Times ive talked to her before she makes comments about her still having his last name like IGAF!!!!!She has to be involved in everything. Sad part is her bf shes been with all of these yrs prob has no clue either and ive heard he treats her so good. IS THIS BITCH TRYING TO RUN ME OUT BC SHE'S ABOUT TO WIN!!!! AND WTF WOULD SHE BE GAINING BY ME LEAVING HIM. SHE DOESNT WANT HIM BACK IM SURE OF THAT! :O

She may not want him...but

She may not want him...but she doesn't want you to have him either. Seems to me she wants to have her cake and eat it too.

That makes sense thank

That makes sense thank you!!!!!!!!

Your exactly right. He makes

Your exactly right. He makes calls to her too and confides in her so she feels entitled still.. Ive told him to keep her out of our lives and he says okay but I go snooping around on Facebook and I see shes recently friends with newer people he's met that i havent even met!!!!!!!!!!

You need to ask yourself, is

You need to ask yourself, is he worth it??!!!

He really isnt worth it!!!!!

It would hurt at first, but

It would hurt at first, but if you really feel he is an unworthy investment, then leave.

I felt sorry for you until I

I felt sorry for you until I got to the pain pills thing and this is something you would leave him over. Umm, no it isn't because you would have left him already. You moved your line in the sand. This was against your inner moral code and you have changed your code. So it isn't the fact that he is pillpopping illegally. It is the fact that he got pills with his ex.

Everything says this is not the place for you to be. And she doesn't win, he LOSES you. Change your perspective and move out. Wish him well with his life and walk away and never look back.

Regain your moral code or your moral compass and see this is a sad lesson.

^ THIS! ^ I thought the exact

^ THIS! ^

I thought the exact same thing when I read that part.

I left ALOT out. Ive left him

I left ALOT out. Ive left him twice before bc of his addiction. He gets clean everythings fine, hes working, then he relaps's and lies and says hes paying his part of the bills and i was left to clean up his messes with the bills, I was very dumb to go back to him YES but I was very young and neieve

I left ALOT out. Ive left him

I left ALOT out. Ive left him twice before bc of his addiction. He gets clean everythings fine, hes working, then he relaps's and lies and says hes paying his part of the bills and i was left to clean up his messes with the bills, I believed him like an idiot. I was very dumb to go back to him YES but I was very young and neieve

I had BM flat out tell me

I had BM flat out tell me that I would NEVER come between DH and her as friends. I didn't! She did it her own self with the horrible things she did to people. I'd get really angry watching DH just give in, for the sake of the kids, and do whatever jobs she had to be done. BM terrorized everyone and made all manner of threats if DH did not comply. I'd had enough one day and called her bluff...have at it BM and do your worst because I am NOT scared of you, nor will I ever be. DH was displeased but I reiterated with him that the kids are now 18 and their relationship, or lack thereof, with their mother is NONE of our business. Phone calls gradually faded out and are almost non existent now.
Men and their egos...hmmmmmm. Let them have their pill party but I'd call the cops on them, unless you have more to lose by doing that? It sounds like he's still acting like an errant child and I'd treat him like one! He might grow up, how old is he? Usually mid forties for guys to mature enough to put the bullcrap behind them.