Skids have had no contact with BM in over a year except one therapy session FDH and I set up. She blamed the abandonment on them and went her separate way. We walked into a store the other evening and she was in there. BM saw her children, was within touching distance of them and didnt say a damn word, acted like she didnt know who they were!! My skids can't take much more of her neglect. She raised them for 12 years and just walked away!! I don't f-in get it!!!!!!!!