This is mostly a vent.  I'm in my bedroom cruisng this site & getting some things done while SO & SD9 are hanging out in the living areas.  I just cannot deal with her tonight.  Since I posted last week about her meltdown & victory to have her dad sleep in her bed & the smug way she told me the antics have been off the charts.

She pitched a fit & laid a huge guilt trip on SO that my mom's 60th birthday celebration did not also involve her birthday celebration (her birthday is later this week).  We had been planning on a separate lunch for her bday but after the whiny fit about "it's her birthday too" I didn't even want to celebrate her birthday.  On top of all that she waffled back & forth on coming to our house because SO's parents were in town & sleeping in her bed.  She asked if she could come to my mom's party & then go back to BM's house.  Ummmm, no.  And why is it even up to her where she sleeps on any given night?!  The adults decided a schedule!  For the life of me I cannot understand why this is even an option.  Dad's night?  Your a$$ is at Dad's.

So tonight she's all sing-song voice & "Aren't I adorable?"  She does one thing SO asks her to do & thinks she won a medal.  He was supposed to talk to her about where she's sleeping.  It's almost bedtime.  I'm eager to see how this goes.

So, I thought this would be more empowering.  Maybe I'm just not over all the drama she caused over the weekend.  Perhaps if I weren't still disgusted (not just with her behavior but with both parents not disciplining her) I'd feel more bada$$ & empowered for disengaging & taking some time to myself.

BM asked us to pick up some party supplies for this weekend for her bday party.  That is squarely on SO's shoulders.  I refuse to engage & make it all happen when her behavior continues to go unchecked.

I'm just so DONE.  Anyone else ever feel like this?