On second marriage, have three stepkids, husband cheated in me with their mother and I didn't find out for over a year into the relationship. I have a very uncomfortable relationship with his three children. We now have a child together, and I have four kids from a previous marriage. I'm here because I cannot connect to his three kids and it's uncomfortable having them in my home. I feel "wrong" for it, but part of me just wants nothing to do with them. They're not bad kids. They're just an extension of the woman he cheated with. They hated me and still don't like me. I see them trying, as do I. But it's very tough. I'd rather be "sick" and have to lay down in my room when they visit.