I am trying hard to be positive. But everything is a mess. My DH lost his job in November, he has had scattered employment. We tried to get hardship because the support and daycare and travel is too much, his X turned the application around iun her favour and got him owing, and he was ordered from the courts to get a job. We decided he would stay home with our son and the step kids (mine). we cannot afford daycare for 5 kids in the summmer plus back support. The bill for 2 months of daycare and support and backsupport will be over $5,000 a month. Impossible for anyone to afford. And the courts made it sound like him and i were shacking up and we have been married for almost 3 years. WTF.
I hate them, I hate this situation, I cannot sit still for 10 seconds and I have taken some of this stress out on my own children. I want out.