Step daughterS!!!! From HELL!
My life is like sooooo many of yours its unreal the similarities all of us have.I'm new to this site actually I have been reading post on here for a couple weeks now and I decided to post my daily life on here also.LIFE WITH A HYPOCRITE DAD AND 2 BADASS,MANIPULATIVE BEASTS!
A little background, me and my fiance have been living together for about 2 years I have 1 son from a previous marriage (2 years old) he has 2 daughters from a previous marriage (14 and 7) and we have an 9 month old together.
The 14 year old lives here full time, her worthless pc of crap mother pays no child support what so ever. The 7 year old lives here 50/50 and my 5 year old son lives here 50/50.
Now, his 2 kids are the most disgusting, ungrateful,manipulative, bratty kids I have ever been around in my life. The 14 year old has announced that she is now a lesbian, she stays the night with and has her girlfriend stay the night at our house with dads approval, he sees nothing wrong with it, all she has to do is keep asking 2 to 3 times a day for a few days and the answer is yes, so basically the modow around this household with HIS 2 kids is keep asking and you can have what you want doesn't matter what it is, going some where while grounded, buying shit, phone while grounded, hair straightener that's been left plugged in at least 15 times and our house burnt down, candy, 4th and 5th meals everyday, etc just keep asking and his answer will be yes, unless its my son. My son is basically the outcast of the family and has been for a long while now, everything that goes on here revolves around the 2 sd's bedtime, what's for dinner, things we go do together, MONEY. I mean its a joke and me and fiance fight every single time the kids are all her. The 7 year old is a mass manipulator big time, she lies like there's no tomorrow even cost us 2000 dollars for one of them lies! I have just had enough of them, I don't even try to be nice anymore, I find myself having to write down everything his kids do and the punishment which is nothing EVER and then write down what my son does and his punishment which is always getting yelled at, cussed at, threatened to get his ass beat, etc just the other night for instance my fiance made stir fry, crab, and shrimp for dinner well of coarse his kids liked it, hell they are both fat asses who can't wait for there next meal and that's no joke! Well anyway my son said I don't like shrimp, fiance said SHUT UP your eating it I don't wanna hear it I'm tired of the I don't like shit so shut up and eat, well he sat there choked on a pc of shrimp because he couldn't eat it, couldn't swallow it and was being yelled at to swallow it for literally 30 damn minutes. Well last night, this is an example of his hypocrite behavior, his brat 7 year old sat at the table gargled down a peanut butter sandwich and scraped off the crackers and cheese I put on her chili and just ate that part I said ohhhhh no you will eat that chili your no different then anyone else here now eat it! Well she sits there for about 2 minutes fiance goes in there and says oh you don't like it, ok just don't ask for ice cream k! I was flipping floored I said excuse me I just told her she's eating it!! He just shrugged his shoulders and told me to shut up he wasn't in the mood! Gosh I was sooooo pissed I could have spit fire I was so mad.everytime she doesn't like something its ohhhhh god I don't feel good, I'm full and its always ok well its ok u don't have to eat. I'm soooo sick of the shit. She is constantly gropping all over my fiance, runs and strattles him when he gets home, constantly everytime she fucks up something first thing is oh I love you, its pathetic she is a true manipulator. NOW the 14 year old she is the nastiest of the nasties let me tell ya she throws bloody pads on the bathroom floor, lies, steals, lesbian, you name it she's it! She is constantly making stuff up I know in hopes I will leave and I think I'm about to pull her to the side and say let me tell you something brat I'm not going anywhere so get over it!
My fiance every time I tell him something they have done he just ignores it, doesn't say a word but will fight with me on a daily basis about them instead of just doing something about there asses.
The 14 year old he so called grounded the other day lol yeah right that was a joke 2 hours later he gave her the cell phone back and said and I quote "don't talk on the phone only text" WHAT??!! U have got to be kidding me that's how grounded she was I swear. This is just a little of my daily life with these lazy kids who do nothing including messes they make, sorry but step momma will not ever clean up shit smears off the top of the toilet from a 14 year old I WILL NOT DO IT! I'm gonna think of more and post in a few but here is a little for now. Thanks for listening guys ii needed to let it out before I choke them.
I know that since you have a
I know that since you have a baby with this guy its hard but i agree. Run like hell. This is not a good situation for you. You need to be with someone who has respect for you and you child.
This is a cautionary tale.
This is a cautionary tale. For all of you ladies out there engaged to or dating a man with difficult children. DON'T HAVE A BABY TOGETHER RIGHT AWAY. It is much easier to live when you get down the road a couple of years and you have some perspective on their children, their parenting style and their ex. I know its tough when you have children and they have children and you think that you will become closer, that you will "truly blend" if you have one together but it doesn't fix things. It just makes things more complicated.
Sweetie, I'm not trying to preach at you, your situation sucks. But why didn't you wait longer than (about six months by my calculations) to get pregnant?
I feel so sorry for your son
I feel so sorry for your son also. I'm sorry but by the sound of it your fiancé is being verbally abusive to your son.
If my fiancé would treat my son that way I don't know how I could stay.