SS18 having phone sex!!!!
I really need someone to calm me down. SS18 caught having phone sex last night with his little brother in the room!!! (They share.) SS10 was so embarrassed he just laid there and listened to the whole thing and we didn't find out till this morning. I am so f!?king disgusted right now.
DH said he would take care of it. Went and told SS18 that if he did it again he would have to move out. Did not yell, punish him or anything!!! He said he didn't have time to deal with it this morning and then just left for work!
So here I am, stuck in the house with Ss18 and Ss10 and bs9 and I have to pretend everything is okay! I asked DH to ask ss18 to leave for a few hours so I wouldn't have to look at him, and he refused! He said " I'm sorry, but I'm not going to make home move out like SD did!"
I feel like I have no say in my own house. This is disgusting beyond belief and I can't say or do anything!
Someone calm me down!
I honestly think SS18 was
I honestly think SS18 was just being an idiot. A horny idiot, LOL. But I'm more angry with DH's lack of response more than anything else.
I think you're calmed down
I think you're calmed down now. It's very likely he was just acting stupid. If it happens again you do as the lady who posted above did:
"...I put my foot down and we ended up separating for a while. SD moved out the house permanently..."
You tell husband "Either the kid goes or I do".
he was just being a horny
he was just being a horny teen setting a bad example for his younger siblings. i would set foot down with dh and tell him if he does it again, he can move out end of story.
Yikes! There are two totally
Yikes! There are two totally different issues here. 1: the phone sex. Yeah, he needs to learn how to be discrete, but at 18 no big deal. 2: the bro in the room. He's 18 and has to learn that doing things like that are illegal. You can't just expose a minor to sexual things, brother or not.