Small buisness just for Moi.....?
I started a small buisness, something fun, just for me to do on the side for extra money and also...just to get away from it all.........
Do you know that the ex wife, had the nerve to call me and tell me that if i want to use her oldest daughter who is 12 to help me ...she would be ok with it! She even said she was ok with me going and getting her to help me on the wkends that are not our visitation wkends.
WHAAATT? O.M.G. ..one minute she is confronting me about things she has "heard" that i've said about her....and then the next she is sweet little miss..offering her daughter to me.........??
hate to say it but the only reason that i feel she offered is because it is the only area of my life she has not been able to get her hands on and pick apart.....
........by "offering" her daughter to me, i guess she figured it was the only way "IN" to see how much i am making on the side that she can't get added to her Child support.
So sad.
its a search for power
She has no claim to any of your money (she has to know that!)But interest in your life, what you do personally, you bet she wants in.
Our BM does this all the time, but always involved my kids in it.
"Oh, I heard DH is out of town. I can help with the girls if you want"
or
"I heard your child was sick- do you want me to pick YOUR other child from school?"
Unfortunately, I learned long ago that these just aren't innocent offers of help, she's just using any opporunity to wedge her way in. I've politely declined and ingored in an attempt to get her to stop until the umteenth time she offered, I had to call her out and tell her to stop. Still waiting for the shoe to drop on that one