I'm both a Bio Mom and step mom. I think that even though I don't give my BD(babydaddy) any problems I am still seen at the crazy baby mama, which is very far from the truth. On the other side, I do deal with a crazy, lazy, scummy BM, Her sons (3) have been living with my DH and I for 9 years. This crazy bitch has caused so many problems for these kids and still does.She left when the youngest was 6 months, still breastfeeding. Fastforward to 2013, she tells them their father stole them - yeah Right, these boys have given me shit from day one thanks to their crazy mama, but at the end of the day we all as step moms have to have more patience, it really isn't the kids' fault -- it's a combination of a lot of things -- so we all need to take a deep breath and try to give these kids a good family life -- I KNOW IT'S SUPER DUPER HARD considering all of the extra shit we have to take - but at the end of the day it's about the kid's well being - Thanks for listening. Have a wonderful day!