This weekend SS12 and SS15 will be spending the night. SS12 has a party to attend on Saturday. I believe it's from 1:30 PM to 7:30 PM. DH will of course be dropping off and picking up.

I am pretty sure when DH picks up SS12, SS15 will want to stay if I am home. DH won't leave SS15 if I am not home, because deep down he knows he can't be trusted. SS15 will definitely go in our bedroom and snoop through things.

I actually have thought of going out maybe an hour or two before pick up time so I don't have to be here when DH leaves.

Here are my choices:

1. I could stay and just go in my bedroom and close the door. Leave SS15 to himself. Not much to go through in other parts of the house, plus he would easily get busted if he did.

2. I could say to DH let's all take a ride with you.

3. I could simply go out a few hours before and not come back until I am certain SS12 has been picked up.

I do know it's easier to do the pick up without having to take the children or child. SS15 just really makes me uneasy.

Yes I could tell DH to take him, but let's be real, even I would be annoyed if it were me.