Dealing with the pregnant stepdaughter
Short sweet version, 18 yr old SD got pregnant, caused a huge mess within my husband's family, stressed the heck out of he and I, moved out, said she was an adult and didn't need us anymore. Told the rest that we disowned her, which we did not. This was almost 2 months ago, she is more along the lines of 6 months along. Everything blew up when she couldn't hide it anymore.
My husband has always treated her like she is golden when in reality she is a selfish, self centered, spiteful and rude person. We have been married for almost 4 yrs., he has custody of her.
So now, the week of Thanksgiving I arrive home from work to discovery that she has moved back into our house and I'm not handling this well. I stay on the edge of a splitting headache, my disposition is not good and I want to run away. My husband doesn't seem to see any issue with this. Her crap is all over the place, she sleeps over half the day, wakes up to make messes in the kitchen which are left for me to clean up and I could just cry.
He and I both have full time jobs and I resent the heck out of this whole predicament. Help me find some way to talk to him, to deal with this, something. We can top it all off with my seizure disorder with stress as my main trigger for seizing. I've been seizure free for a while but I'm scared this is going to bring them back.