My partner and I would like to move in together but we have a few issues. He has 2 teenage BD who he has 50/50 custody of. I have 1 teenage BD and 2 younger BS that I have custody of and there BF is not a very reliable person and I can see his visits becoming non-existent. Our main issue is that my partner feels a lot of pressure and responsibility to my boys in particular as they absolutely love him and look at him as more of the father figure. He also says he doesn't know if he would cope with spending all his time with my children when his only get to spend 50% of the time with him. His childrens BM is also very unreliable and doesn't put the children first. If anyone has been through this please give me some advice!!!!
Thanks