So I got into this big fight with my DH. I had rented a movie for him and I to watch after his kids 3 & 6 went to bed that evening. We really, really needed some together time. He had his kids an extra few days that week and he completely ignores me when they are over, so that week, I had really felt alone in our relationship! Anyway, he lets these kids stay up till all ridiculous hours of the morning blasting cartoons in the living room. I put my foot down this summer and started going to the bedroom to decompress and watch regular non-cartoon tv when I started getting tired (about midnight). I used to try everything I could to actually stay up till he would finally put his kids to bed, so that him and I could spend a little time together before we went to sleep. This evening in question, I went to the bedroom to get comfy and watch some tv while waiting for DH to put the kids to bed, so we could have our movie time. That was about midnight. Well, 1:30am rolls around and I am getting PISSED still waiting. I needed to go into the kitchen and get some water. I have to walk through the living room to get there, so I say "hey, just so you know, its after 1am". That was it. He finally puts the kid to bed and comes in at 2am and I am expected to stay awake to watch this damn movie. I was not pleased. I watched about 30 minutes of it and I was Zzzzzz. I didn't make any big deal of the whole thing. I am so used to getting totally ignored and sh*t on when his kids are here that it just doesn't get to me anymore, its normal life. The next morning, he is acting like a dick to me. I had no idea why. Then, he just blurts out all hurt "do you not want me to spend time with my kids? there was no reason for you to come out of the bedroom and tell me it was 1am, I knew that! You knew the kids go back to school next week! Its my last weekend with them!" I was dumbfounded. I explained that was not the case, and had never been. I never tried to compromise his time with his kids, not ever. I also was unaware of when school starts...its irrelevant to me honestly...and his time with them isn't reduced in anyway during school time, except that during the day, obviously they are at achool. I didn't say any of that of course, but I was thinking it! Then he said that he thought he was doing a nice thing for me. He said that he was going to sleep in living room with them like a campout or some sh*t because ohhhhhh god its their last weekend before school starts. Instead, he was doing me a favor by not making me sleep alone and decided against this "campout" thing. So, of course, because he pulled the "time with his kids" card, I am wrong on all counts and just an awful b*tch. ugh!!!! *rolls eyes* Anyone else deal with this kind of crap? Any advice for me PLEEEEASE!