Too much skid in the last month - vent

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DH’s b-day was on the 10th and I had all his family over for a party/dinner on the 13th and then it was SS22 b-day on the 19th and MIL, DH, SS and his GF went for dinner. I have officially spent too much time this month with Skid. Even the weekend before that I was dragged around to look at new rental, DH didn’t tell me we were spending the day with skid.

I have had to bite my tongue so much this month it hurts. From skid over at our house bragging on how he is so responsible which is such bullshit, to him trying to correct my grammar at his b-day dinner, which I paid for. BTW he was wrong and I corrected him right back. .The dumb ass should not even try to be the grammar police. But its game on now for anytime that he is over since he has a 54% in High school English compared to my 98%.

It just gets to me that he goes around and is arrogant and brags and DH licks it up, he can do no wrong. DH has his head up his son’s ass the whole time.

Then tonight DH informs me that my table and chairs that is in the basement was promised to is son who is moving into his new place December 1st. We have already bought him furniture for the main floor. Love seat, couch, coffee table and 2 barstools since there is an eating bar. At one time I considered giving him my table however DH and I are looking at houses and might need it and that is when I said I will not give anything way, and this was months ago.

DH is all “well I told skid he can have it”. He thinks just because he promises skid something that it should happen, even if he spoke out of turn, which he did.

He is always so wanting to keep his word/promises to skid, but never does the same to me. All the time he goes back on his word concerning his skid and some other issues So screw him, my table and chairs (which I bought before we were married) can stay here at our house even if I never use the table. And chairs I don’t care. Just tired of skid behaving badly and being showered with money, gifts and given things, and he never says thank you. Well I refuse to contribute anymore than I have.

Now DH is pouting, typical!

Hopefully I don’t have to see skid until Christmas or later.

When I came home Monday night

When I came home Monday night from the retirement Centre my parents are in I told DH that they are giving away the dining room tables and chairs for free since they have ordered new furniture for the dining room. That's when he informed me that he promised my table to the man baby. Well DH can go pick up a free table for skid, heck he can pick up 2 or 3 if he wants.

hold on.. why did you pay for

hold on.. why did you pay for skids dinner? Why did DH not pay.....

DH gave away your furniture bwhahahahahaha I will just laugh at DH and say really is it yours to give away, nope not....

The server was not coming

The server was not coming back to our table to clear the plates, trust me I waited. So I went up and paid to call an end to the dinner so we could leave. I did not want to sit there any longer. It was worth it.

NO NO NO grace - you did not

NO NO NO grace - you did not have to sit there and wait for the server to bring the bill, you simply could've gotten up and said to DH.... see you at the car Hon and walked out...

I do understand, though...

The last dinner with my skids I stood up first and started walking out, then they, husband included, finally got up; I was leaving these disgusting people---but they were ready to continue with the group harassment of me, given my lack of husband defense, who lets them run all over both us!

Husbands do anything to

Husbands do anything to please the kids, when they are spineless and are really not" fathers." It sounds like you may be living with that kind of man too....You may have to end up keeping them out of your home, if he keeps giving your separate property away--what a nerve!

Yes he is spineless and skid

Yes he is spineless and skid has DH's balls in his pocket. I agree that he is not really a "father".

Take thee to a day spa

Take thee to a day spa immediately! Seriously! You are drained, emotionally and financially from the dynamic between DH and SS. However, your issues are NOT uncommon with step parenting relationships. We all gag when our DH sings SS and SD praises, while we see right through their manipulations (huge eye roll.) Your grammar BTW is great- ignore the pompous immaturity! Take better care of YOU! Get pampered, spend a lot of time on you and you will care a little less about this aspect of your marriage. P.S. Tell DH "over my dead body" with regards to the table and chairs.

Clark I like the way you

Clark I like the way you think. I am accompanying DH on a business trip this weekend (starting Thursday), I will book some spa time at the hotel and charge it to the room that is on his credit card. Maybe the following weekend I should book a girls trip and finish unwinding.