I am so annoyed and pissed off. 2 days after skid got paid at the beginning of the month he cries to daddy that he is broke, doesn’t know how he will eat or fill his car with gas to get to work. DH e-transfers him $250 dollars as a loan, never mind the fact that skid still owes $1100 from November and has made no payments to that.

I told DH that he is not parenting him but enabling him. According to our Counsellor I should tell him my opinion and then back off. So far this is not working for me, especially since giving skid $250 at that point landed us in over draft before we got paid again.

I have pre-marital savings of $35k and DH wonders why I keep it separate really. DH is a bit of a train wreck with budgeting and I am a super saver, so we already clash.

Now we return from vacation and the very morning of our return, skid is texting whining that he can’t afford a hair cut and FML etc. manipulating daddy once again.

At least DH told him to come over and help him make a budget. DH told me he is not going to make any promises of money until they go over things and then sleep on it before taking any action. I was hopeful but worried.

Skid comes over all pouty, he does not want to go through the exercise just wants money it’s obvious. Skid brags how he will only eat organic meat and vegetables even though it’s so expensive, wtf? Your broke but you will be that much of a snit and I know for a fact how much fast food and take out garbage he eats because he brags about when he is not fishing for money.

Over dinner that I was nice enough to cook, DH offers to take him Costco shopping on our dime. I almost lost it but held back because I will have that conversation in private.

I checked in during the budget process and skid is not willing to cut his expenses, such as his cell phone bill that’s $130 month because snow flake needs 15 GB of data and still goes over because he has to stream music and it’s inconvenient to wait until he has WiFi. He lays $350 month to a music store for equipment rental.

Skid is over spending and trying to convince daddy that he isn’t. I snooped, I know I should not do it but I did. I found out that skid purchased $650 guitar 4 days before getting the $250 and after wards spent $350 on another one.

I suggest that DH set up a mint account for skid, to see where the money is going. If he did set it up with him he would see the spending but DH does not have the balls.

So DH is going through a useless exercise and wasting his time and will end up giving skid money.

I left them alone to do I don’t lose my shit. I guess it’s wine o’clock.