We kicked the snot out about a month ago -- well, we kicked her out, and then she got pissed off because I told her (not in so many words) that she was being a "ho" and that was when she said she was moving out (thank God!!). Then she told her Dad (after I'd apologized) that she was pissed at him for not defending her honor. Good grief. What honor? She's a slut. And a pregnant one at that now by a guy she'd known for 2 months at the time. I tell ya, those 16 and pregnant shows do NOT keep girls from wanting to get pregnant -- it's like they think that will keep the guy around, and if a girl is prone to drama, she will get pregnant just for the drama (like my SD22). Anyhoo, so she tells her Dad shortly after that that he is no longer her father and as soon as her stuff is out of our house, she is never talking to him again. (I'm doing a little happy dance inside of course). I can see DH is not real thrilled, but he also knows that SD22 is a drama queen -- and all the other skids know she is crazy (they've told me). So she moves out of our house, and into her boyfriends house -- and he lives with his parents. Nice huh? Now she is their problem. It's only a matter of time before she shows her crazy side to them -- it usually takes her about 2 months -- she's a time bomb. When she blows, she is good for a little while, and then she'll go off again. Seriously, it's like clockwork.

So, she's been gone for about a month. Her youngest sister (SD 16) asked tonight if we were doing anything for SD22's birthday (she saw her sister today). I wasn't planning on doing anything for the little b****'s birthday. But DH said "yah we'll do cake." I'm thinking in my head "I'm not doing sh**." I tell ya, this girl brings out the worst in me, and I hate the person I've become because of her. I've already got plans to do something with a friend earlier in the day, and I'm thinking that I will just extend it into the evening and not come home until later -- I don't want to even sign a card to her. She has been so awful to me over the years and even recently -- that I'm seriously so done with her.

When we found out she was pregnant ... I was so supportive of her and was there for her, helped her get set up with the state for her health insurance (filled out all the paperwork etc.) (do you think she thanked me?? NO!) I babysat for a friend for two days to pay for a car seat and a bouncy seat for this unthankful brat -- barely got a thank you from her. When she first moved in with us (after my husband made a unilateral decision to let her move in after she hadn't spoken to me in over 9 months, due to a whole other issue -- I wouldn't speak to her -- I wouldn't even allow her in the house) -- and then my husband lets her move back in. I was so pissed at him I almost moved out and separated.

This time after he kicked her out/she moved out -- I told him that if he let her move back in, I was moving out. I even told him about the bank account that I had with money set aside. I figure I'm not hiding it -- I'm leaving it right out there in the open and he knows I'm dead serious.

So the birthday party -- a part of me wonders if I should just suck it up and be there for a little bit ... or do what I want to do and not be there at all. I mean, she hasn't even spoken to me (even though she has come by the house) since she left almost a month ago). Her brother, SS20, even told me that she considers me "disposable". He told me that he was sorry that she thought that way and said that she was crazy.

As I'm sitting here typing this and thinking about all the crap, it's no wonder I don't like them most of the time and they piss me off. I try so hard and do so much for these ungrateful, unthankful brats.

I was thinking to myself today why it pissed me off so much that SS20 took a box of cereal to his apartment when he is perfectly capable to purchase his own food. He's just cheap and lazy. I saw that he'd done that today and it instantly pissed me off. Then I got to thinking if that was my BD17 that had done the same thing, would it make me nearly as angry ... and I thought no it wouldn't. Then I was wondering why does it make me so mad that he does it. I think it makes me mad that he does it because first off, he didn't ask. Second, we have to support and feed 5 other people in this house, plus when he is here we have to feed him too; Third, my daughter would ask. Fourth, she wouldn't just take stuff, she would ask. Fifth, she is thankful and grateful for things. She is not like them. They act entitled.

Man they piss me off.