I blogged about my dh cancer diagnosis and how I called ysd (25) at dh's request to tell her. She hasn't spoken to dh in a year. What's the first thing she does - texts her sil to tell her brother. (half brother) You know she's still special. Her dad would tell her first. Too bad sd your dad already spoke with him a couple of days ago.
One of my issues with her is boundaries. It is not up to sd to contact her brother to tell him. It is dh's choice which he did. She is only back in our lives for an hour or so and is already pissing me off.