my SD HATES ME!!

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I can't believe what she told me, I text her and asked her what had I had done for her to hate me so much? And this is what she text back: " You have not done nothing,I just hate my dad and have the right to be mad and hate everything he does!
She posted on a friend of mine facebook page that I was stupid b#### and can kiss her Mf butt!!I had to change my cell number that I had for 3 yrs and block her and her family...

WOW!! i would tell her the

WOW!! i would tell her the feeling is mutual......even though she's just being a rebellious teen, but that's me. you should really wait to hear what some better seasoned pros would suggest, my advice isn't always the best.....i have a little temper and my control issues don't help...

she is 23 years old and has 2

she is 23 years old and has 2 kids. we were invited to her brothers graduation and I said i couldnt go,she said not to use her as an excuse for not going.My husband said he didnt want to go anyway and neither did his parents.we all send my step-son a card,anywho I have a special-ed child and at the last minute we had a ARD meeting and found out SHE WAS GOING TO GRADUATE! That made them more mad and the ex wife send me a message on fb to tell my husband to keep up with his child support payments or she was going to push the attorney general here in Texas to put him in jail!! My husband has 3 kids ages 25,23,and 18

ok, then tell her the feeling

ok, then tell her the feeling is mutual....she's a grown woman and if she can dish it, she better be able to take it.

To be honest I send her a

To be honest I send her a text b4 I changed my cell number and told her I forgave her and God Bless you and your family.She didnt text me back.When my daughter graduated she posted I was a mean step-mom and she felt like Cinderella with fugly step-sisters.I blocked my fb site and she has turned most of my hubbys family against me.And I have not ever send or said anything bad about her.She posted that I was jealous of her.I am mad and hurt.The old me would have been in jail right now for going overthere and beating her butt UFC style lol!!

Don't you just LOVE the

Don't you just LOVE the "she's jealous of me" horsecrap??

My H's oldest tried that one for the longest time. And, like you, all I ever did was try to be NICE. I QUIT about 3 years ago when I joined this site, because the nicer I was, the more I opened myself up to them, the more "ammunition" (flaws) they found in me.

Projection. I'm not jealous of HER, she was jealous of ME because "Daddy" was HAPPY and she was no longer the center of his universe.

I can't wait til you get to the place (maybe you're already there) when you just don't give a damn anymore. After 7 years, I still get the old "my D's don't feel comfortable coming to our house" from H. Not my problem. What I do anymore is make my OWN plans when I know they're coming here. I have a LIFE and a family, too.

So, how can I make them uncomfortable if I'm not here?? I don't even try to justify their nonsense anymore. But, trust me, I was VERY hurt by them in the beginning. It's definitely a "process", but I know I'm not getting "blamed" for their miserableness anymore. Let H handle it.

her poor children.... bet

her poor children.... bet she's not such a great bm...

can you let it go and tell here to fuck off in your head and go on with your happy self??? at least try, i've been doing it all day (trying to let it roll) and it seems more obstacles than usual are coming my way, but i'm hangin' tuff. go team starfish!

Well that told you didn't

Well that told you didn't it?

She said the most hurtful thing she could. She hates you and her Dad for no reason except you breathe and live on the same planet.

The only way to get over her attitude is to ignore it. COntinue with the rest of the family as if she didn't exist. Prove by your actions she is nuts. When anyone brings her up,smile with that look that says "Geez Louise! Poor little thing is really QUITE confused. We love her to bits!"

Unless your DH has a nutso family who like to make someone the black sheep and right now you are IT.

Of course the Evil SM in me would let it be known you are about to inherit a sizable amount of money from your crazy Aunt Mary. Betcha she comes around. Of course things get tied up in probate for so long don't they? }:)

WOW!! i would tell her the

she is 23 years old and has 2

ok, then tell her the feeling

To be honest I send her a

Don't you just LOVE the

her poor children.... bet

Well that told you didn't

oh oneoffour you're too cool.

I remember when I was younger

My kids love my husband and

Why do u feel she hates u so

Oh well, just try to carry on

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my SD HATES ME!!