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Last night was wonderful. I came home to
A chilled bottle wine, a card, and a gift. Yes the gift was from the event and a hideous color but I was most gracious. The card was very nice basically saying he felt empty the past week and let's move on.
We went out to dinner and had a great time!
No texts or phones until this morning as he was leaving. I laughed as I heard him talking with daughter he just spent the week with!
So a success.
I think he accepts my disengagement.
I hope so- well done! I'm
I hope so- well done! I'm away all next week on my own (or, without DH!) somehow I'm not expecting anything when I get back but the sulks. I may buy him a souvenir of my trip. Still,you never know!
Wonderful...so glad things
Wonderful...so glad things are looking up for you.
I wish I could delete my post
I wish I could delete my post saying how nice dh is. Turns out the T shirt from the event that he bought me? He used MY credit card. WHY? Oh because you get 20 percent off using that card! WTF!
When my jaw dropped to the floor, he told me that all our money is the same.
And yes he has cards for my accts. He uses the cards to get supplies for my house as needed and stupid me thought I was being inclusive.
So he literally spent a couple grand on his daughters for this event but makes me pay for a 30 dollar shirt.
I am trying hard to drop this.
Please say you're going to
Please say you're going to make him pay you back, and that you've canceled his cards for your accounts. What a jerk!
He bought you a "gift" with
He bought you a "gift" with your money? So trashy. Go to his account and withdraw same amount of money. Or you have no access to his accounts? Yet he has access to yours? This is one a$$ backwards marriage.