I want to puke when I hear my DH kids are gone on mission trip with their church to serve the poor.They get up in front of the crowd singing prasies to the lord. SS wife tells the small kids at their church Jesus wants us to be to good to people and He will bless us when we are good. :jawdrop: They have everybody in their church fooled. IMO if you are a christian then you dont want to mistreat people(even family).Family should be the last one you want to hurt and the first one to make things right.I was talking to a friend of their's that goes to church with them and she was talking how much they love the Lord and people.I wanted so bad to say and next time I will say well honey did you know Im not welcome in their house and they spread lies on me and wont speak at all, tell dh to make his choice of them or his wife .Oh yeah I should have come clean about them.Wonder what their friend would have said back to me ?