Welcome to StepTalk, Olivia.

Can you tell us a bit about your step problem?

They are toxic adults.  Write em off.

Time to exclude them from taking up the precious minutes in your life.

That they show you who they are so you can proceed accordingly. You disregard them. Life will become that much easier.

I would celebrate the holidays with your SO...and no one else! If they question why they were not included...you respond " you get what you give!" I personally would not be with someone who did not celebrate the holidays with me first... marriage is a partnership! If your husband does not back you up then he is not the right one!