I have been married for 22 years now (2nd marriage for both). I had 2 daughters (now 29 & 31); he had 1 daughter (30); and we have 2 children (son-20 & daughter-19). But I'll try to make a long story short. First let me say, I met my husband long after his divorce and his first wife is now married to the man she was cheating with. For whatever reason, my MIL seemed to like the ex and my SD better than me, my husband (her only child), or our children. This contributed to problems with my SD. My MIL passed away last summer. My husband inherited everything, but my SD seems to think she should have. We have not heard from my SD since my MIL's death, except once when she called to ask for money. She did actually get $13,000 that was meant to pay for the funeral (another long story - we ended up paying). BUT, we just learned she has gone into my MIL's house after being told clearly not to. I am furious and don't know how to reconcile my feelings. Oh yeah, she was also asked not to bring her mother to the funeral but she was there at calling hours before us and stayed after we left, right up by the casket. My husband wouldn't even go to the front of the room because she was there. Ugh.