17y/o ss offered pot to my 14y/o
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17y/o ss offered pot to my 14yr old daughter. We all live full time in the house. Mu boyfriend said ss was probably just showing off, but now i have found pot and had money missing. My boyfriend is a great guy and i love him and my kids are so attached to
Him but i need to protect my kids,
My boyfriend has given ss a "written" warning if you will to make better choices and not smoke pot in the house.
I am feeling so torn with how to protect my kids, i know my boyfriend woukd never let anything happen to them but im not sure being under the same roof is working its been 2 years and ss never acknowledges me or my kids birthdays!
HRNYC hi, could you please
HRNYC hi, could you please elaborate on what you mean as to why i should be concerned by the relationship between the two?
Thank you!
NOPE. Deal breaker. My SS17
NOPE. Deal breaker. My SS17 has been caught w/ pot too often to count. I told him I will search his person and his belongings AND he has to pass a drug test before he's allowed in MY house. He hasn't been over since. PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN
Thank you, this is why i have
Thank you, this is why i have posted i need to have this forum. I have no one to bounce things off of and i dont make knee jerk decisions i have strong hesitations on staying here and thanks to all of your support it helps me rationalize my need to move out after 2 years and you are all correct, im no dummy! Its just sometimes i think i want to see it as i want it but it isnt the reality.
Thank you all for your support.
Yes he puts me first. But
Yes he puts me first. But when this shit happens i get confused and i hoping im not in denial.
Denial is too soft a word for
Denial is too soft a word for it but you're hardly alone. All of us want to wear rose colored glasses.
As 100% of the others, and I now, have said the kid goes out now. Not the end of summer, not next month but by the end of the week. This is absolutely inexcusable. The kid is what is referred to as a "pothead", he's addicted. At age 17 its illegal for him in EVERY state. His life now revolves around marijuana and the lose inhibitions are there every day. This is a not a social user who lights up at a party once a month or so. He is under the influence as I write and is never willingly out from under it. The proof of that is he's getting caught often and easily and has made a critically stupid mistake offering it to a 14yo.
Why do you think he did that? It's expensive. The last time I saw its going price which was 8 years ago it was $300 an ounce. You can hold a ounce in one cupped hand. You don't just give it away without some expectation in return. What do you think he expects?
I had pot ~ pills ~ to Coke ~
I had pot ~ pills ~ to Coke ~ to extacy & recently my favorite I gave heard through the grape vine ~ that she is now on dope. Whatever that means. Heard this third party so how much truth to it is questionable.
I kicked that kids ass out of my house ~ after mommy dearest claimed that pot is the gateway drug n didn't change anything. Sure let your dd hang out with the kid that was arrested for drugs n paraphanial. Practice what you preach ~ I m just an annoying bystander. Toilet bowl your life sweetie ~ cause no one will believe me ~ I m just here to make life do difficult right. She's such a prize.
Your SS-17 is a drug dealer
Your SS-17 is a drug dealer and is contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Put his ass in prison where he belongs. Written warning? Really? WTF is that worthless BS when dealing with a criminal in your home?
Your BF needs to put a hand between his legs, grab a big old fist full of man sack and man up when dealing with is criminal spawn.
Written warning. What a load of worthless crap that is.
Jail, now!!!!!
You guys are correct! My
You guys are correct! My boyfriend handles his kuds with kid gloves, yet my kids get disciplined when they make a mess or leave their toys out on the lawn.
I know no ones kids are perfect by any means and no blended family doesnt come with its share of issues, but today for example ss never cut the grass, never put out the trash and doesnt work, my boyfriend says ss is prob lying that he got a job. But today after he was told not to have friends over had his girlfriend over the whole day and then they left just before my boyfriend got home.
Nothing is said to ss, he just jumps in his car anf leaves doesnt have to tell his dad or me where or when he will be back.
Ridiculous. Ridiculous and I am a fool for putting up with it. I need to get my shit together fast.