What constitutes harrasment and what can i do about it?
what exactly is considered harassment and is there anything that i can do to stop it?
after months of her calling and screaming at dh, telling him about her personal issues, etc. we have asked her to only call if it has to do with ss. it seems that she has gotten around this by calling to ask how he is doing then launching into something that has barely anything to do with him. she rarely asks to speak to him and has seen him once in four months when he was at her parents house. she even called to ask if we have paid her her cs yet this month but ss has lived with us by court order for the past four months and we are in the courts right now getting it removed because she has "refused to cooperate". is there anything legally i can do to make this stop or so that we dont have to actually ever talk to her again?
No that's doesn't sound like
No that's doesn't sound like grounds for harrasement unless she's being OCD (like calling 50 times an hour) or is consistantly verbally offensive to you guys. If she is then you should call the police and file a harrassment report on her then take it up to the court. It must be documented you've asked her to stop harrassing before you do this.
In the time being, you can ask her to email you guys instead and if she calls, it has be an emergency or to talk to her son. Personally, i wouldn't answer any phone calls until she leaves a message. If it isn't an emergency and isnt for the kid, I would follow it up with and email or disregard if its complete nonsense. Emails are great for documentation purposes too.
Your BioMom sounds like a serious pain.