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Well, it's About TIME!

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My husband's exwife has 3 other children via 2 different fathers. Four kids, 3 fathers. Hubby is the only one who keeps up with child support. Father#1 (he has the oldest 2) is in arrears by probably $15,000. Father#2 isn't even aware that he has a daughter who is, 10 years old now. He knew BM was pregnant, got caught cheating and BM left him (they weren't married at the time)

So anyway, the About time part in the subject line is the fact that the BM is FINALLY pursuing the back child support from Father#1 for her 2 older daughters. Why? Because the BM is about to have half of her income cut once the spousal maintenance ends.

She knows she doesn't have a leg to stand on by asking for more spousal maintenance, or having it extended. She had 2 years to better herself--but she screwed around and it's finally catching up to her.

It's about time that Both father#1 and Father#2 pay their share towards their own children's child support. She expected Father#3 (which is now MY DH) to compensate for the other 2 fathers' shortcomings. She even admitted it to my DH that she used some of the child support meant for HIS son (her 4th child) for ALL her kids.

Hubby set her straight on THAT expectation reminding her that he had offered to adopt all of her daughters when they were married but she chose not to let that happen. So it's up to HER to figure out where her next meal ticket will be coming from.

I just pray like crazy that the guy she's living with right now had a vasectomy. This woman is one fertile myrtle!

Orange County Ca's picture

It's likely she is coming around to realize that she lost her best chance at a normal life when your husband walked. She had three chances to get it right and missed all three. Pity her.