Hello all, I am new here. My H and I were presented with info last night that I am not sure how to act on. I'll start with a little history...
My H and I have been together since 07, we were married in 10. We were not able to marry before then because she would never follow through on her end of the divorce. We had to wait on her because she lives ing Washington state and we are in louisiana. She has H two children along with tree others, (one is questionable to be his, but she will not DNA him). We get his children according to papers spring break, summers, and every other thanksgiving and christmas. However, since we are the only ones paying for plane tickets (ew is supposed to pay half) it has become just summers. She has a 15 yr old daughter that my H raised from 18 months to 10 yrs. she is the one that told H of the affair her mother was having. That child now has a 1 yr old daughter. H has no relationship with her because we says she's not his. The reason she would not finish the divorce is because she is on the system. To the state she had five children with no dads paying. Once the divorce was filed H and I had his child support set up to be drafted from his check and payed directly to the state. So glad we did cause she is constantly saying she is not receiving it.
Anyway, now on to my current problem, the last time we talked to the children was Christmas morning, with the exception of my sd bday when sh called us in February. So last night my H called the WA courts, they instructed him to contact police and do a well child visit. They did and found an empty house. Ew has moved and we have no way to find her. We are filing a contempt of court today. I just don't know if they will do anything and I am seriously worried about the kids. Will they just slap her hand or will something really be done? We are so far away. Can anyone offer any advice? Please I am desperate!