ADOPTION
I have two daughters 5 and 8 years old (each have their own father), one was deported to mexico and the other one comes and go. it has been a year since he las contacted my daughter ( the one who lives in USA) my husband and i have been talking about him adopting my daughters. My girls say that my husband is their father they love him and he loves the too so my girls arent an issue. Im afraid that if i ever die that their fathers will take them when they never really have had a relationship it scares me just to think how unhappy my daughters will be if they ever get separated, i guess what im asking is if adoption is possible? would it be easy to get a judge to consent adoption? or is it a fight i need to prepare for since they have to give up father right?
Parental abandonment
You may be able to leverage the two fathers abondonment of your children as the catalyst to have your DH adopt your kids.
Get a lawyer.
We considered adoption, or more specifically, my adoption of my SS when he was very young but the SpermClan would not entertain that option. We even approached the SpermClan and offerred to adopt my SS's three younger also out of wedlock Spermidiot spawned half sibs by two other baby mamas. That gained no traction either.
I continued to raise my SS as my own just as I had from the time his mom and I started dating when he was 15mos old, just as I had when we married the week before he turned 2yo. Ultimately he asked me to adopt him when he was 22yo. We made that happen. Once the blended family opposition has no say, things can happen quickly.
Of the Spermidiot's 4 children only my son has translated his childhood into viable successful adulthood. The two youngest are serial criminals with #3 heading to prison for a felony burglary conviction. #2, the only girl, is supporting herself but has not left SpermLand and is eternally sucked into the toxic SpermClan drama. #4 is not far behind #3 (his full brother) in living up to the Spermidiots gangbander wanabe dreams of thug hood.
So what you can and what you have to do to protect your children and to give them a great life.
IMHO of course.