What to do when BM...
FDH AND BM just made a new visitation order (they didn't have one before)...they verbally agreed in mediation that BM gets the kids the day before their birthday and takes them to school on their birthday. FDH time is the day of birthday after school... BM agreed to this in mediation...court papers are being drawn up and legalized...
Ss10 birthday is tuesday. She informed FDH just today that "her version" if the paper work she just signed says she gets them the day of the birthday and that is what she is following... FDH has not seen this paper, has not signed it...
But he does have aletter from her lawyer dated end of february supporting his side.
BM is planning to pick up the kids tuesday, FDH was planning on her picking them up tomorrow after school....
He is contacting his lawyer first thing tomorrow.... But what can he do???
Verbally they agreed she gets them the day before... FDH has never seen or signed any paper work other than ones that supported her getting them the day before and him getting them the day of....
wish we were in texas,...
He offered to
He offered to alternate....
She didn't want it... Her birthday is the day before another kids birthday, that was in march. So just this march, less than a month ago, she took the kids the day before the youngest girls birthday and took the kids to school on her birthday,.... So BM got to have her the morning of her birthday ....
Now BM is demanding something different for the boys birthday....
But what can FDH do if BM
But what can FDH do if BM takes the kids??? She is non custodial and would be taking them outside of what was agreed upon...