My SS is going through a lot right now in his life and its been going on the last year or so. But everything is starting to show up now. His mom got a split from her husband and got a divorce, during the divorce she moved herself, ss and other son in with another man for a few months and then decided that was not for her and moved out to an apartment. Now she has met someone and they are getting married next year. they are both in the airforce so this is how they met. he lives in NC and is moving over here for her. they have been to visit him and she tells ss that he can not tell us because its none of our business...I think it is if it does concern him. she lied and said she was going to a family reunion. he is being told not to tell us anything and my goodness he is 7 years old let the boy be excitied or express anger. he keeps it bottled in and this weekend i could tell. he has a half brother at his moms house and he is getting very anger with him and more so now then ever. he has been through a lot in his life and definatly the past year and a half i want to ask her if she notices or tell her what we see but i have a feeling she will deny or say she doesnt know. she likes to think her world is perfect and nothing is wrong and wants her life to be much better than ours of course. how do you talk to someone like this or do i even try?