I have the greatest boyfriend- I love him a lot, however, he has two children girl 11 and boy 4- am I normal for not liking the bm's coming into our home? Am I normal for not wanting to know the bm's- one is a looser who changes boyfriends often and has a job that prevents her from having the 11 y/o girl on weekends... need I say more, and the boy's mom is a controling nasty b.... both of these bm's try to control my man and I am quite honestly a little fed up- my guy is very good to me and considerate of my feelings however, it is so overwhelming! Also, the kids are a lot of work... I have no kids, and didn't think I wanted to have kids... HELP!