Top 5 List - Things DH's don't get....
Anyone else have a top 5 or even 10 to add? }:)
1. Your kids may be "troubled", "hyper", or "have issues", but mostly, they are just assholes that you and BM tolerant unacceptable behavior from. Of course, you have no problem correcting MY child even when their behavior doesn't come close and/or they are half your kids age.
2. Just because BM is a lazy, uneducated, skanky hooker that you allowed to sit on her ass for your entire marraige, doesn't mean that I care if she is broke, needs something fixed, or has issues, even if that affects your kids who live with her. And you shouldn't either or else you should be single or married to her.
3. No I won't pay your child support for you, even if you are "doing your best" and I have plenty of income.
4. No, my beautiful, big home that I bought prior to meeting you is not part yours. And if you think it is, then the sad, little broken-down home that you still own with BM is part mine and I want her ass evicted.
5. My DD4 will not be around your kids because they are rude, troubled, at least 10 years older than her with way worse behavior, scary, mean, speak in almost nothing but cuss words, and use people. So I guess you'll need to see them elsewhere.
Somewhere there's a
Somewhere there's a step-father making the same complaint about your kid.
Now don't be insulted - I'm just pointing out that its a matter of perspective.
OK get insulted I know you will anyway.
I'am not insulted at all:) I
I'am not insulted at all:) I have a 4 year old, she drives me nuts sometimes. Believe me though, my DH's kids are on a level all their own.
please. just be straight. you
please. just be straight. you enjoy pissing people off.
All 5 of these are completely
All 5 of these are completely valid!
1. I am not a parental figure
1. I am not a parental figure to your almost 30 year old son.
2. You and BM were horrible parents. I never even met your son until he was an adult. Don't blame me.
3. Unlike your skanky ex I knew how to use BC.
4. Yes, SS should go back to school, but I am not paying for it.
5. SS is never spending so much as one night in MY home.
6. SS's girlfriends are even more skanky than his mother. Who knew that was possible?
7. No - SS cannot come to any of my family's holiday celebrations.
8. When SS is dead drunk at 10 am I refuse to believe that "he's doing better with his drinking".
9. When SS smokes weed 24/7 instead of drinking he still has a substance abuse problem.
10. I am not dealing with any spawn of SS and one of his skanks.
Minus the DRINKING, I could
Minus the DRINKING, I could say all of this about BM!! Seriously, replaces SS with BM, and that is my life. LMAO.