Is is too early to start Cyber Happy hour?
I love my DH with all my heart but sometimes he needs a good kick in the rump! Where is fearless? I have really tried to lead by example with DH on issues with the children; step, bio, grand etc. I have asked that he include me in decisions with SD (that affect or involve me) but he still keeps me at arms length. He never includes me in what is going on with SD11 unless it directly involves me ie: picking her up, dropping her off for him etc. and those things I find out about at the last minute. I have talked to him about this in the past but nothing has changed. We have had long discussions recently about my kids and decisions we make about their activities, needs and wants etc., to the point that I basically ask permission from him before answering to thier requests. I have even pointed out to him how important it is to me to have him involved in all aspects of my life with and without the kids. Still I get nothing back from DH on SD. If I confront him about anything in particular he just says "oh I forgot to mention that to you", but he never forgets if I don't tell him about anything going on with my kids. Just really bothers me. I have completely backed off of all these things with SD hoping that he will see that we should be partners on this too, but I feel like a ass for being that way. He is planning a party at our house with her now that he didn't even ask me about, didn't bother to tell me about until SD said something to me. I have not offered to help at all and will not. Am I being a total B? What else can I do to make DH understand? I'm ready for my margarita Steve!
~Evil
OMG were you listening to me
OMG were you listening to me and DH
Just what I say, verd for verd. Sometimes I think he's doing it on purpose to be mean but it's slowly dawning on me that he just is THAT clueless.
Love ya F.
-G
OMG I can't stop laughing
The others in my office think I have lost it! Thanks Fearless and Daddysgurl. I am going to get that drink now!
~Evil
Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.
Confucius
Ahhhh
I'm having a nice cold beverage and trying to remember that patience is part of the deal. That cold beverage helps too! Thanks for comiserating with me ladies.
Here's a sip to all of you, hope you have a drama free weekend.
~Evil
Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.
Confucius
I REally Believe
My Skids BM sits around and plots ways to get at us. She is that F*#$ed up. In the last week I have uncovered so many things she has done to sabatoge the kids airline tickets for their visitation to see her so that it will appear DH's fault and cost him big time. We will see what else she come up with no telling. We will simply just not put them on the plane simple as that. She has lied so many times to DH and the courts but I think as time goes by the surface is being scratched and she is more obvious than ever. I am sick of the bitch.
cheers
I am having a hard cider (or two or . . .), waiting for DH to return from p.u w/ skids, and then off for two days of camping and fishing up in the California mountains which is my favorite way to spend the weekend. WITH DH and my skids, who love camping and fishing too. We are just going to have FUN and hallelujah and cheers! Drinks all around.