tomorrow is court for DH
And I am not going by choice, I have work and we just got a new puppy about a week ago, and I dont need crap from his family telling me to stay out of it so I am for my sake all the way around. DH knows that I support him in all ways and that Im always there to back him up. I found out the other day that she drove by our house last weekend because she had to drive through here to get to Myrtle Beach. The way that we found this out is my DH put a tracker on his myspace, he doesnt use myspace but he had it there to see if she would search him and keep tabs on him and he was right. Well he sees some guy that is from Myrtle Beach that shows up on the tracker so H goes and sees who this guy is and come to find out hes great friends with DH's ex. She was bragging about the town I live in is a shithole and how we are all white trailer trash except for some parts. But then she said "there was this one house, with a ratty white Jeep ( its an 05 so I cant see how it would be ratty) a boat parked on the side of the house and a three wheeler for sale, and none of it looks like it runs.. okay PLEASE. My husband did not tell her where we lived, she did a search on him to locate him and summons him for this court hearing that he has today, we know that because in the paperwork it says that she wants compensation for having to find him. We are nowhere near the highway that you have to take to get to MB so I KNOW she made a detour just to see us. Here is the kicker though. We have not had any contact with her whatsoever because she put a restraining order out on DH because she didnt get her way with CS. DH couldnt take the time to fly up to MA. to contest it because he is in school to be an instructor for the military. So how is this all gonna look in court? Have any of you had this prob. with a psycho ex wife that lives out of state and just "drops" by your house to scope all your shit out?
Oh if you didnt notice she
Oh if you didnt notice she does live in MA.
"Never argue with an idiot; they'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."
Kind of had BM scope out our
Kind of had BM scope out our house via what we left at the curb...trash day was yesterday but due to holiday it was delayed. BM came to pick up swins afterschool & snagged all our aluminum cans from our recycling container. At first I was ticked, how dare she grab our cans for cash, then I was struck by the fact that she spent the long weekend in Atlantic City and came back so broke she needs cans for cash. I don't trust her. She's desperate, broke & bitter = trouble for us. DH said, "how do you know it was her?". Pleeezze. Won't be long before BM house is foreclosed & swins are w/us 24/7. Of course she could get a job and try to make ends meet. But that would be out of character for her. Easy street is where she lives.
WTF?!
I know where you live because I used to live there myself and I can tell you one thing... the best route to MyB from MA is not via your town. Why would you take I40 instead of I95? That adds an extra half hour to the trip. Taking 501 into MyB is preferrable to taking 17, because that way you can avoid the North MyB traffic, which is crazy this time of year. Okay, so it's been a few years since I've been there, but I don't think it's changed all that much.
♥ Georgia ♥
"Good men don't just happen. They have to be created by us women." (from ROSEANNE)
I was thinking the same thing
"That adds an extra half hour to the trip. Taking 501 into MyB is preferrable to taking 17, because that way you can avoid the North MyB traffic, which is crazy this time of year."
You are right, She is really nuts and I really dont know who to turn to because now.. she has gone a step over the line.. whats next? breaking into my house and going through our crap? She needs help. DH said that she prob. flipped her shit when she saw what kind of house we life in and the stuff we had. I dont doubt it but that gives her no right at all to pull this crap! Can we get a head check on her? seriously. Everyone tells me that she has a screw loose.. mabe she really does!
"Never argue with an idiot; they'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."
We just have a BM
We just have a BM that drives by our house several times a week. She lives in another town and has no reason to go by our house at all. She is scoping out the place, even went online to see our tour pictures because we have our house for sale....told us what we have on our walls if you can imagine. They are sick, that is the only thing I can say.
Corie
wtf is wrong with these
wtf is wrong with these women? I mean.. really?? you want to see how I live so you can kick yourself in the ass some more over what you lost and ruined and cant get back? geez.
"Never argue with an idiot; they'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."
Tell me about it! I love my
Tell me about it! I love my life with H and its been so nice since she put the BS restraining order on him but it sucks because he couldnt talk to or see his daughter. I would def. tell my H to tell his ex to buzz off as well if she was talking to my H about remodeling her house. At least your H's ex has moved on.. DH's ex has NOT moved on.. no boyfriend, no husband and its been 4 years. I think that people dont want to deal with her drama and not to mention she is a total troll on top of it. I really dont know what my poor H saw in her.
"Never argue with an idiot; they'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."
ugh, how sad is it? Well I
ugh, how sad is it? Well I hope that DH squashes her like the little roach that she is tomorrow and she will end up pulling her head out of her ass.. I guess thats wishfull thinking on my part I guess.
"Never argue with an idiot; they'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."
OMG...i love it!
OMG...I love it....squashes her like the little roach that she is and she will be pulling her head out of her ass....I will have to remember that one for our BM!!
Good luck to hubby tomorrow in court!!
Corie
i hope so too
i really hope court goes well for u, but after my recent experience its hard to have faith. it just seems these women can get away w anything and the courts put up w it and squash the guys in the meantime. you and ur DH will be in my thoughts...
Maybe she's just curious.
I dunno. I can understand curiosity. That's a natural thing, I guess. If I were driving through, I could maybe see going a block or two out of my way to appease my curiosity. I'd wonder where my children were spending their time. I just can't see driving an extra half hour - probably more like an extra two hours, considering traffic - just to see where you live and then posting comments about it on MySpace. The looking is one thing. The looking then posting comments is another, especially since she went so far out of her way to do it. Odd. Nothing can be done about it, as long as she minds her P's and Q's, though. Just keep an eye on it.
♥ Georgia ♥
"Good men don't just happen. They have to be created by us women." (from ROSEANNE)
I mean if she wants to come
I mean if she wants to come by my house and drive by it three times a day thats fine but your right, the fact that she is bragging about it is beyond me. Today is the day for him to go to court and Im scared. She wants his bonus money, more money for child care.. I know for a fact she wont get more money for child care because MA. law says that its the custodial parents financial repsonsiblilty and that gets taken out of the equation before they figure child support. She also wants to up the CS from 400.00 ( on a CPL salary) to whatever she thinks she wants.. I know thats not gonna happen. If anything it will be lowered. They included his BAH from when we were living in Ca. as part of his paycheck and they shouldnt have. So now.. that we live in a cheaper state the BAH went down, its like almost 600.00 less than before, so by all means they can count it this time as well. So I think she is gonna wish she would have kept her mouth shut.
"Never argue with an idiot; they'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."